When people talk about women in Islam, many ideas come to mind. Some see women as oppressed, while others know them as respected and honored. The truth is, Islam gave women rights and respect at a time when they were often ignored or mistreated in many societies. To understand the real role of women in Islam, we must look at the Qur’an, the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, and the examples of women in early Muslim history.
Women Before Islam
Before Islam, in many parts of the world, women were treated as property. In Arabia, daughters were sometimes buried alive because they were seen as a burden. Women had no say in marriage, no right to inheritance, and were rarely respected in society.
But when Islam came, it changed everything. The Qur’an declared that men and women are equal in their value before Allah. It gave women rights that were revolutionary for the time and these rights are still important today.
Rights Given to Women by Islam
Islam honored women as daughters, wives, and mothers.
- As Daughters: The Prophet ﷺ said, “Whoever has three daughters and treats them kindly, they will be a shield for him from the Hellfire.” (Ibn Majah) This showed how raising daughters with love and care brings blessings.
- As Wives: Women were given the right to accept or reject a marriage proposal. They were granted the right to a mahr (dowry) for their financial security, and husbands were commanded to treat them with kindness. The Prophet ﷺ said, “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife.” (Tirmidhi)
- As Mothers: Islam raised the status of mothers so high that the Prophet ﷺ said, “Paradise lies under the feet of mothers.” (Nasa’i) This shows the honor and respect Islam places on motherhood.
- Inheritance & Ownership: For the first time, women were allowed to inherit property and wealth. They could own businesses, buy and sell, and use their money as they wished.
Women as Leaders and Scholars
Islam also showed that women could play important roles beyond the home. Khadijah (RA), the wife of the Prophet ﷺ, was a successful businesswoman. Aisha (RA) became one of the greatest scholars of Islam, teaching thousands of companions and transmitting over 2,000 hadiths.
Even in history, Muslim women served as teachers, poets, doctors, and leaders in society. Their contributions are proof that Islam values education and leadership for women.
Responsibilities of Women in Islam
With rights also come responsibilities. Islam encourages women to protect their modesty, nurture their families with love, and contribute positively to society.
Modesty (haya) is not just about clothing; it is about behavior, speech, and dignity. A Muslim woman is encouraged to live with self-respect and to be a source of goodness wherever she goes.
At the same time, Islam does not burden women with responsibilities beyond their capacity. For example, earning for the family is primarily the man’s duty, but if a woman chooses to work, she can do so with respect and dignity.
Misunderstandings About Women in Islam
Sadly, many people confuse cultural practices with Islamic teachings. In some cultures, women are denied education or forced into marriages. These actions are against Islam. The Qur’an and Sunnah clearly show that women should be educated, respected, and given the right to choose.
A Balanced View
Islam does not say men and women are identical, it recognizes their differences. But it teaches that both are equally valuable in the eyes of Allah. Men and women are like partners, supporting and complementing each other in building a strong family and a healthy society.
Conclusion
The role of women in Islam is full of honor, respect, and responsibility. From being daughters who bring blessings, to wives who are partners in life, to mothers who are the foundation of families, women hold a special place in Islam. They are not limited to the home but are encouraged to learn, teach, and contribute to society.
Islam’s message is clear: women are not inferior, but equal in their humanity and essential in building a better world. When we follow the true teachings of Islam, women shine as the gems they were meant to be.